The Ultimate Dildo Guide: Everything You Need to Know Before You Buy
Whether you're exploring your body for the first time or you're a seasoned pleasure seeker, a dildo can be an empowering, versatile, and deeply satisfying addition to your intimate life. But with so many shapes, sizes, materials, and features out there, choosing the right one can be overwhelming.
At Loverole, we believe pleasure should be informed, safe, and deeply personal. That’s why we’ve created this complete guide to help you understand everything you need to know about dildos—from how they’re used to how to pick the perfect one for you.
What Is a Dildo?
A dildo is a sex toy designed for internal stimulation—typically vaginal, anal, or both. Unlike vibrators, dildos are usually non-vibrating (though some may include vibration), and come in a wide variety of shapes and materials.
While often associated with solo play, dildos are also popular with couples, LGBTQ+ partners, and anyone curious about exploring their body in new ways.
Types of Dildos
Here are the most common types you’ll find:
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Classic Dildos
Straight and simple, these are often smooth or slightly curved for general internal use. Great for beginners. -
Realistic Dildos
Molded to resemble the look and feel of a real penis, complete with veins, texture, and sometimes even balls. -
G-Spot Dildos
Ergonomically curved to target the G-spot with precision. Many have a bulbous or hooked head for added pressure. -
Anal Dildos
Designed with a tapered tip and flared base for safe anal play. Often slimmer and smoother than vaginal dildos. -
Double-Ended Dildos
Long, flexible toys that can be used by two partners at once or for deeper solo play. -
Strap-On Compatible Dildos
Often used with harnesses for partner play. They typically have a flat base to secure them in place.
What Materials Are Best?
Choosing the right material isn’t just about texture—it’s also about safety and hygiene.
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Silicone
Non-porous, body-safe, easy to clean, and feels luxurious. This is the gold standard. -
Glass
Elegant, smooth, temperature-play friendly, and non-porous. Must be handled with care, but highly durable when properly made. -
Stainless Steel
Ultra-smooth, weighty, and great for firm pressure. Also ideal for temperature play. -
TPE/TPR, Jelly, or Rubber
Soft but porous and harder to sanitize. Not recommended unless paired with a condom.
Tip: Always choose non-porous materials for easy cleaning and long-term safety.
How to Choose the Right Dildo for You
Here’s what to consider before buying:
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Size
Beginners may want to start with smaller, slimmer designs. Advanced users can explore larger or girthier toys. -
Shape
Want to hit the G-spot? Look for a curved shaft. Looking for realism? Go for anatomically molded options. -
Base
A flared base is essential for anal use and for harness compatibility. Suction bases are great for hands-free fun. -
Purpose
Will you be using it solo or with a partner? Vaginally or anally? Do you want it for penetration only or dual stimulation?
How to Use a Dildo Safely
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Use lube. Always.
Lubrication reduces friction and enhances pleasure. Use water-based lube with silicone toys (unless otherwise noted). -
Go slow and listen to your body.
Whether you’re exploring for the first time or trying something new, your comfort is key. -
Keep it clean.
Wash your dildo with warm water and toy-safe cleaner before and after each use. Sterilize non-porous toys by boiling (if allowed) or using 70% isopropyl alcohol. -
Don’t share without protection.
Use condoms if you're sharing a toy or switching between vaginal and anal use.
Dildo FAQ
Q: Can I use a dildo for both vaginal and anal play?
A: Yes—but not interchangeably without cleaning or using a condom between uses to prevent bacterial transfer.
Q: Are bigger dildos better?
A: Bigger isn’t always better. The best dildo is the one that fits your body and comfort level.
Q: Can men use dildos too?
A: Absolutely! Anal dildos or prostate-targeted designs can be highly pleasurable for people with prostates.
Final Thoughts: Pleasure on Your Terms
Dildos are about more than penetration—they’re about taking control of your pleasure, exploring your body, and enhancing your intimate life however you choose. Whether you're seeking solo satisfaction, partner play, or something in between, there's a perfect dildo for you.
Explore our full collection of body-safe, beautifully crafted dildos at Loverole, and discover what feels right—because pleasure should always be personal.